Can emotional cheating be picked up in a reading? How about insecurity?
I talk to people every day, and the insecurity is on both sides. Women seem to be more worried about a man not loving them, while men seem to be more worried about being foolish. But the desperation is the same, and the questions are the same.
In regards to this question, I get the same cards whether it’s ‘real’ cheating or ’emotional’ cheating. It just ‘feels’ different when I’m reading the cards, or there will be a 7 of cups thrown in, or something else that clues me in that it’s all in the mind rather than a real cheating situation. And I do sometimes talk to people who admit they are involved in an affair that is everything except physical, which I would think is the true definition of an emotional affair.
In my experience the vibe I get from insecure lovers is either ‘I’m nothing without him,’ or ‘she can’t leave me.’ Neither is healthy, imo, and you’re right, they are based in insecurity. But these situations are the ones that end up in those tragic murder suicides or on Jerry Springer. The women seem more likely to fall into a depression while some of the men seriously sound like stalkers. Your average ‘normal’ adult in a secure relationship isn’t going to lose their mind because their significant other notices someone attractive passing by. At least I hope not.
I think we’re all capable of temporary insanity when it comes to love, *at least once in our lives. * It’s those that make a habit of it that scare the bleep out of me. So in all essence of the word just like physical cheating the emotional is seen in the cards as well. Check out the tarot card section to see which cards will show some peoples cheating ways.
Submitted by: Louise Mathews